Monday, November 21, 2011

REPOST: Keep Going! by Minister Darrick D. McGhee

November 8th, 2011
It’s a wonderful day to be a child of God.  Have you ever wondered what God’s plan for your life was?  You have come to the conclusion that after all I have been through, the Lord is preparing me for something awesome.  I have heard many people say, “you can tell how great God’s assignment for you will be based on the amount of hell you face.”  Quickly, take a moment and think about the struggles you have endured since this year began.  From the beginning the devil has been attacking you, your home, and everything connected to you.  Apparently he knows his time is limited and what God is preparing you for is soon to come.  Have you ever felt a push within your spirit?  The more you want to give up, the greater the push becomes.  Just when you decided to give up, the Holy Spirit quickened your spirit.  Have you ever been there?  Are you there now?
Today, I have been commissioned to come and minister to you.  I know how it feels to want to give up on life.  There appears to be more going against you than for you.  While you know God is up to something, currently things appear chaotic.  Child of God, as I mentioned yesterday, trouble does not last always.  Yes you are currently experiencing challenges.  Yes you are enduring attacks.  Yes things could be better in your life.  Yes you are tired of this roller coaster ride known as life.  My friend, Keep Going!  The reason things appear so dark is because you have not finished going through.  When we complain, worry, doubt and/or lose the faith, this means we have taken our eyes off of Jesus and now we are focusing on our surroundings.  The Bible declares in Hebrews 12:2 - Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God
My brother, my sister, what are you dealing with today?  What circumstance do you find yourself faced with?  What dilemma are you caught in the middle of?  Have you taken your eyes off of the Lord?  Beloved, no matter how well connected you profess to be, each of us will be faced with challenges in our life.  No matter how many degrees hang on your wall, you will be faced with something that your education cannot discern.  No matter how much money you have in the bank or stocks you invest in, you will be faced with trials that money cannot buy you out of.  In spite of it all, Keep Going!  Just because your life does not look the way you would like it to, does not mean God is not working on your behalf.  The Bible declares in Philippians 1:6 - Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ
Scripture Reading for Today: Matthew 14:22-36

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Who said Chivalry was dead?

Thank you Jesus for your love and protection.  Amen!
After work today, I took a quick trip to Wal-Mart to pick up a few items as well as to get the cheaper gas from Murphy USA.  I swiped my credit card, pushed the yellow button marked 87, and began to fill up my gas tank like I had done so many times before.  I turned towards my car to take a seat while I waited for the numbers to get higher and higher.  As soon as I looked at my door I knew I had done it.  I gave the door a yank – nothing.  I walked around the car glancing again over at the numbers on the gas pump.  I shook my head and smiled in disbelief.  I had locked my keys in my car. I can only think of one other time that this has happened to me in my driving history.  Once I gave the fourth and final door a tug I knew that I had to think quickly – on to plan B. 
A lady was driving up or attempting to position her car so that she could get in line after me.  I really felt bad at this point because the station was extremely packed.  I walked over to the lady to inform her of the situation.  I then asked her if she would allow me to use her phone since all of my belongings for the exception of my credit card were locked in my car.  She smiled and handed me her phone without hesitation.  I stared down at the phone for about thirty seconds until I realized I didn’t know any numbers by heart.  The only number that I could recall was my parent’s home phone number and since they live in Louisiana that really wasn’t going to do me any good.  I smiled and thanked the kind lady – on to plan C. 
Once my tank was full I replaced my gas cap and walked over to the cashier’s window.  I asked the two nice ladies inside the booth if they had a phone book or if they had a number for a pop-a-lock service.  They immediately answered no to the phone book question (technology is really crippling us) and no to the locksmith - on to plan D.
I decided I’d walk back up to Wal-Mart and ask the security guard if he had a slim jim (didn’t know what this was until today) or if he had the number for a pop-a-lock.  He didn’t have a slim jim, but he pulled out his phone, located a locksmith, gave them a description of my car as well as the exact address to the Wal mart (which I would not have been able to do).  I thanked the kind man and walked back out to my locked car. 
By now a line had formed behind my car.  Again, I shook my head and laughed.  I had the cashier place a orange cone behind my car to eliminate the amount of disappointed people.  I had at least fifteen minutes to waste until the service guys would show up, so I decided to clean my very dirty car windows.  I could not believe this was happening to me.  The good news was that I wasn’t scheduled to be anywhere and I hadn’t bought groceries at Wal-Mart that would have surely spoiled in the hot car.  Usually when things like this happen to me I look up and ask God, “Okay, so what’s my lesson?” Because I am a believer in the fact that everything happens for a reason.  Nothing is by mistake.  All I could think of was some person from my past would show up and rescue me from my distress or some other random event would occur; you know something worth blogging about.  J
At that very moment, I heard someone say, “Now what did you do?” I looked up smiling to see a gentleman staring back at me.  I explained my situation still laughing as if everything was just dandy.  He pulled his car in front of mine, turned off the ignition and began to retrace my steps around the car.  He checked every door while I laughed in the shade and at one point I think said, “let me just stand back to see if you do anything that I haven’t already done.” We both laughed again.  He then offered up several suggestions for me to prevent this from happening again in the future.  He asked several questions and offered up a great deal of unwanted information, but I just laughed and enjoyed the company.  His last suggestion was to purchase a slim jim from Wal-Mart so that he could show me how to use it this time as well as any time in the near future.  I laughed (okay I flirted a little) and said, “Oh, I’ll go back to Wal-Mart if you drive me back up there.”  When I heard myself say those words I knew something was definitely different about this situation.  I hardly ever talk to strangers or should I say strange men, but it was something about this guy that made me feel safe.  As a matter of fact from the very first words that he spoke to me it seemed as if I already knew him.  So, on to Wal-Mart we went – also known as plan E. 
He searched the store for the device that he recommended unfortunately Wal-Mart didn’t carry the product.  We walked back outside the store and at this point I’m thinking that his kindness was over.  Surely he had better things to do then to wait around in the parking lot – the hot parking with me.  We stood next to his car trying to decide what to do next.  He pulled out his phone and called up a few of his friends that owned car repair shops as well as suggested trying Auto Zone or something like that for the Slim Jim.  He kept saying over and over again how the locksmith was going to charge me a lot of money.  At this point, I didn’t care about the fee, I just wanted to get in my car and go home.  Again, all of his options came up short.  We both just laughed as if to say, “Oh well”.  Then he reached out his hand and said, “Hello, my name is…” for the life of me I cannot remember his name.  We had been talking for nearly thirty minutes and didn’t even know each other’s names (smh).  Smiling he drove me back to my car and then I just had to ask “Is there somewhere you need to be?” He answered me saying “Nope. Just stopped here to get some gas and then go home.” 
The gentlemen waited with me until the locksmith showed up.  He had coached me saying, “Before he does anything ask him how much he is going to charge you.”  (Again, he reminded me of someone I use to know or some distant relative – I don’t know.)  I followed his direction as he watched me from the sideline.  The locksmith – Lawrence was his name (crazy that I could remember his name after only being around him for a few seconds, but could not remember the kind guy that had been helping me for the last hour) – told me that he was in downtown Dallas when I called.  None of his other co-workers wanted to drive out that far and to top it off he was already off the clock.  Lawrence had a very pleasant attitude.  He only charged thirty dollars and retrieved my keys in under a minute.  I shook his hand and thanked him before he pulled away.  My gentlemen friend asked, “Did you tell him thank you?”  Clearly he thought that he was my daddy or my brother or something like that. 
I then shook his hand and thanked him for staying with me and helping me out. He turned to walk away and I was a little sad.  So, I said, “Did you write down my number when I gave it to Lawrence?”  He smilled, but I could tell that he had no clue what I had just said.  I was too shy to repeat myself, but surely he would ask me for my number.  I mean I wanted to be able to perhaps get him a thank card or a gift certificate. He opened my car door and when I was safely inside with the key in the ignition he smiled, closed the door and walked away.  I sat there for a second before glancing in the rear view mirror to see if he had changed his mind about that number. To my surprise, he was nowhere in sight.   That is when I realized he was my Guardian Angel.  God had sent him to me and I was extremely thankful.  I couldn’t stop smiling… My God is so awesome and always so very good to me!
The somewhat ironic part of this story was that one of the items that I had just purchased in Wal-Mart was a movie entitled, “a good man is hard to find.”  I couldn’t do anything, but laugh out loud and say, “Thanks for lesson Lord.  I hear ya!”  
Be blessed,
Christy

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Do you remember the time...

I was speaking with a friend the other day about transitions and new beginnings. As I listened to her talk about the new adventures going on in her life I began to think back over my own life. It seems as if I have been in the same place for far too long.  I've traveled around from city to city and just last year I relocated to a new city for a new job, however, spiritually I have been at a standstill. My thoughts went back to the last time that I felt like I was really living - not just going through the motions of the day but really living. I recall waking up extra early in the morning starting my day with great devotionals and uplifting gospel music.  No matter what I encountered throughout my day nothing could steal my joy.  It was as if I was waiting on roadblocks to appear ahead of me just so I could politely repeat the scriptures that were buried deep within me to move them out of the way.  I kept little reminders with me like affirmations from Dr. Wayne W. Dyer or quotes from Joyce Meyer and I never felt disconnected from God's word.  It was if I was living and breathing the Word every moment of everyday...

So, what happened?  Why do I now feel as if I am wondering aimlessly through the wilderness – somewhere between who I use to be and who I will become? Why do I feel as if the devil has tried to attack me from every angle at just about every moment of everyday?  There is only one explanation that comes to mind...

God showed me a glimpse of who I was to become in Him and the work that was required of me in order to fulfill my purpose.  Oh, I'm not even gonna lie to you I was afraid and completely shocked.  Not me... Not little old me.  I thought that I had misinterpreted the entire thing.  So what did I do?  I went back to doing the things that came easy instead of training and praying and preparing myself for my ultimate mission.  I gave in to the devil's tricks knowingly and willingly.  What the devil didn't realize was that even though my outer shell looked different and the companions in my life were different the Word in my heart was the same. God's word never left me, so in the midst of my struggle, in the midst of my pain, and in the midst of so much temptation I was still able to call on the name of the Lord! 

If your story is anything like mine and you feel as if you can't find your way back to God's word, here are a few scriptures that will help you to remember the time...

Hebrews 13:5 KJV, “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Psalms 23 KJV, "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.  He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.  Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me: thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."

Matthew 28:20 KJV, "teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you;
and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen

Be Blessed,
Christy

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

REPOST: Like a Child

by Joyce Meyer - posted July 27, 2011

Truly I say to you, unless you repent (change, turn about) and become like little children [trusting, lowly, loving, forgiving], you can never enter the kingdom of heaven [at all].
—Matthew 18:3

Today's verse describes children as trusting, lowly, loving, and forgiving. Just think about how much more we would enjoy our lives and our relationships with God and other people if we would simply operate in these four virtues. Obviously, Jesus thinks these qualities are extremely important because He says we cannot enter the kingdom of heaven without them. We cannot enjoy the benefits of God's Kingdom and maintain bad attitudes at the same time.

When I think about hearing God's voice, I see that being like a child is so important because children believe what they are told. Some people say children are gullible, meaning they believe anything, no matter how ridiculous it sounds. But I don't think children are gullible; I think they are trusting. God certainly doesn't want us to be gullible or naive; He wants us to be trusting. Sometimes we are betrayed by people we love and trust and are tempted to then distrust everyone, but we cannot make everyone pay for what one person did to us.

There are people in the world who cannot be trusted, but there are also a lot of good people and we must refuse to live with a spirit of suspicion.

God is completely trustworthy. All human beings, regrettably, cannot be trusted unconditionally, but God can. God wants you to come to Him like a child, trusting Him completely and believing everything He says to you—because He is totally trustworthy.

God's word for you today: Don't let one or two bad experiences rule your entire life.


From the book Hearing from God Each Morning: 365 Daily Devotions by Joyce Meyer. Copyright © 2010 by Joyce Meyer. Published by FaithWords. All rights reserved.

Sunday, July 3, 2011

In the meantime...

It’s the time between what just happened and what’s about to happen.
It’s the time when you cry, when you beg, when you promise to never make the same mistakes again.
It’s the time when everything is so clear about your past and your future seems so promising but yet so far away.
It’s the time when you clean out your closet to remove the old and make room for the new.
It’s the time when you survey your past relationships to see if they are worthy of a future.
It’s the time to allow your antibodies to fight off or neutralize the harmful viruses of your past and your present.
It’s the time to allow new growth to become more visible as you cut away the chemically treated tips of your hair.
It’s the time to rub away the scab from your scars and understand that scarring is a natural part of the healing process.
It’s the time when you fill your body with nutrients to build and repair tissues and to help regulate your body.
It’s the time when you exercise mentally, physically, and emotionally to prevent the diseases of affluence.
It’s the time that you pray, repent, meditate and allow God to take over His rightful place in your life.
It’s a time that cannot be understood, justified, or categorized by any human word or phrase.
It is a time that must happen, that does happen, that will happen over and over again as you encounter life’s twist and turns.
Now ask yourself the question again.
What must I do in the meantime?

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Love and saying I do…

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love will last forever, but prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will disappear. Now we know only a little, and even the gift of prophecy reveals little! But when the end comes, these special gifts will all disappear. It’s like this: When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child does. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Now we see things imperfectly as in a poor mirror, but then we will see everything completely, just as God knows me now. There are three things that will endure – faith, hope, and love – and the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-13
The flowers have been ordered, the DJ has been paid, and our families have traveled from around the world to witness us promise to be together until death. It’s too late to turn back now. It’s too late to throw in the towel. It’s too late to tell her that the love that I once felt for her has been replaced with rage. We pretend to be in love. We pretend to enjoy each other’s company. We pretend to kiss, to embrace, and to like the sight of each other’s face. How did we let it get this far? How did we end up at this place? I should have listened to that inner voice that told me not to trust her. I could have ended it all right then and there before things got so complicated. Now, everyone is here to support us and wish us well, but we both know that what we have can never last.  I was never fond of marriage. I was never fond of love. I don’t know what made me fall for her.  Her outer beauty was indescribable, but there was nothing on the inside.  We had nothing in common.  I was weak when she came into my life. I was heartbroken and lonely. Her arms were my protection. Her heartbeat was the symphony that made me want to live again. When I gave her the key to the place that so many have tried to enter I was forever lost.  People tried to warn me that I should take things slow. I was so blinded by the mirage of what I thought was love that I simply dismissed their words.  They couldn’t feel what I felt. They couldn’t see what I saw.  They couldn’t taste the sweet nectar of her being. My thought was that she had been sent from God especially for me. I had been searching for my rib and within her I had found the place that it now called home.  I want to run and hide. I want to turn back the hands of time. I want to go back to the day before I ever saw her face. I want to erase from my memory the first time that I uttered those three words- “I Love You”. What is love? What does it really mean? I thought that our love would go on until the end of time. I came to discover that what we had was not love at all. Our decision to consummate a union that had not been approved by God was our first misconception. We used this false promise to prove to ourselves that what we were feeling had to be sent from God. The lustful desires lead us down a path of destruction that neither of us could have predicted from that very first touch. I had the power, the strength, the authority, the ability to abstain from acting out the sinful wishes that ran through my head. Instead, I voluntarily surrendered to them as if there would be no repercussions for my actions. Now I stand here with regrets, fears and nervous energy. I stand before God, my family, and the woman who shares the same thoughts as me. So instead of saying I do to her I say I don’t know to God. I don’t know if I can agree to this merger without feeling like a liar and a thief. I am a liar for pretending to show compassion towards someone that I despise. I am a thief and my crime is for entering into another man’s territory. I can’t undo what I’ve already done, but I can avoid doing what I’m about to do.
The preacher asked the question and as it echoed throughout the sanctuary my eyes met her eyes and our lips ported simultaneously to utter the words that had no place for such an occasion as this.
“I oppose!”

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

The Burn Waste Theory

(DISCLAIMER: May not be suitable for those with weak stomachs.)


Okay... so I tend to complain a little bit here and there when things don't seem to go my way.  Because of this I have noticed that my attitude isn’t always so pleasant.  In an effort to move pass this chapter of my week (yes my week) I decided to seek counsel from a co-worker who seems to always be in great spirits. Every time he comes by my desk he has a positive quote or a story about how things are not as bad as they could be. 

Just today he was telling me about some of his daily routines while stationed in Iraq.  One of the routines involved disposing of his waste (yes, his waste). He was in the middle of the desert so there weren’t any showers, running water, or restrooms. He and the other soldiers built a wooden porta potty in order to “handle their business.” They'd cut a barrel half in to and place it inside as their toilet. Once the “toilet” was full they had to dispose of the waste to prevent illnesses (my assumption) since they would be sleeping nearby as well as to get rid of the odor.  They would pour gasoline and water into the barrels and set them on fire. Oh, but wait, it doesn’t stop there! Someone would then have to stir the waste until it dissolved into nothingness. 

So, you see how blessed we are?!?

After hearing his story we created the “Burn Waste Theory.” This concept reminds us that no matter how bad we think things are going, at least we don’t have to burn our own waste. 

Be blessed,
Christy


“In everything you do, stay away from complaining…” Philippians 2:14


Soldier pouring gasoline into wastefilled barrel
Soldiers burning waste

Soldier stirring waste

Monday, April 18, 2011

I know people in a rut...

What talent has God given you? A few years ago I completed the Dale Carnegie training course.  During the course we had to memorize a quote for one of the class exercises.  It went a little something like this, "I know people in a rut, who will stay in a rut simply because they don't use their abilities to get things done."

1 Timothy 4:14-15 says: "Do not neglect the spiritual gift you received through the prophecies spoken to you when the elders of the church laid their hands on you. Give your complete attention to these matters."

That statement reminded me of the skills and talents that I've acquired over the years.  I was pretty good at playing the clarinet and tenor saxophone, however, after years of neglect I can barely recall how to play a simple scale.

This is what the elders were trying to teach Timothy in the passage above.  If we don't utilize our talents and skills we will eventually find ourselves in a "rut" where our talents are slowly wasting away...


Be Blessed,
Christy

God, me, and Annabel Lee...

My eighth grade English teacher once gave us an assignment to memorize and recite the poem Annabel Lee by Edgar Allen Poe.  We had the entire weekend to read the poem and on Monday morning we would review with the rest of the class.  For whatever reason, I didn't memorize the poem and felt terrible after watching classmate after classmate deliver the lines proudly in front of the class.  When my time came I struggled to remember few lines and of course my teacher could tell that I wasn’t prepared.  Instead of giving me an incomplete for the assignment she gave me the option to try again the following day.

That evening I read the poem over and over again until I had memorized every stanza.  The next day during English class I stood confidently in front of my classmates and told the story of Annabel Lee. My English teacher taught me two lessons that day. 1) Allows be prepared for a test and 2) if given a second chance take full advantage of the opportunity.

Often times in life we find ourselves in situations where we are not prepared for a test.  God will give us chance or chance and opportunity after opportunity to fix things that may seem broken. It is up to us to take full advantage of every opportunity and try our best to learn from the experience in an effort to reduce the chances of them happening again.


Be blessed,
Christy

Friday, April 15, 2011

Difficult people are a blessing from God...

Yesterday I took a training class on how to deal with difficult people. The instructor provided us with key tools to use whenever we encountered such people.  The thing that I struggled with the most was remembering to use the tips in the heat of the moment. I had several encounters today where I could have utilized my newly acquired skills.  My first thought was to just breathe, but I was so distracted by the special individual in front of me that all of my training went out the window.  After regrouping I pulled out my training manual to brush up on my skills. Before I knew it I was faced with my second difficult person of the day. I took a deep breath, closed my eyes, and thought back to my training. The encounters continued as the day went by.  I found myself silently praying to God, “Is it me Lord? It’s got to be me…”  I thought back over my life and how many times I’ve stumbled upon hard-to-get-along-with people. I even made a list just to see how far back I could go. There was the teacher from high school, the college professor, the new boss, the even newer boss, and the boss newer than the last.

My high school teacher’s reputation preceded her. When I was in elementary I would hear the horror stories from the older kids about how difficult her assignments were or how she would fail you for simply being late for her class.  By the time I entered her classroom, I was ready for the challenge; and boy did she challenge us.  We had to write term papers, book reports, essays, and memorize Shakespeare.  Even though the teacher was stern, obsessive compulsive, and a little bit moody I walked away with an A out of her class as well as a new found respect for Shakespeare. 

The college professor was cut throat and even worse than the teacher from high school.  He taught one of the core required computer programming classes for my major. His exams were impromptu and we weren’t even allowed to use computers (go figure).  We had to hand write (I don’t miss this at all) COBOL programs (an antiquated programming language that is hardly used in the professional world these days) and he would decide if what we had written would actually work if we were to process the code through the computer system.  Long story short I aced the class not because I was super smart or loved programming, but because the professor challenged me. He was one of my favorite teachers from during my college years.

I won’t go into too much detail about the different bosses that I’ve had over the years; but what I will say is that each one of them taught me more than the one that came before.  This realization made me look at all difficult people as blessings. God had placed them in my life to teach me valuable lessons.

At times it may seem as if we encounter the same people or situations over and over and over again, however, if we don’t learn our lessons the first time God will continue to send us tests along the way until we get it just right!

Be Blessed,
Christy
“It must be done, because we must do everything that is right.” Matthew 3:15

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

It all started with two simple words...

“Because of your faith, it will happen.”  Matthew 9:29

Webster’s dictionary defines the word divine as follows: of relating to, or proceeding directly from God. Order is define as: a definite plan. So I interpret those two words together to mean that there is a definite plan for our lives that comes directly from God. 

A few months ago I was talking to a close friend of mind about all of the things that we had gone through in our lives… Some of the stories had happy endings. Some of the stories weren’t so happy.  All in all we realized how each of the situations brought us closer to God and to understanding our purpose.  As we continued to talk the words divine order popped into my head.  I thought back over my life and how God had been there at just the right time.  I immediately felt a sense of relief. I had been delivered from my past. I was currently being carried through my present, and God had shown me visions of a victorious future. I couldn't complain...

*I can recall being down to my last few dollars during the very cold winter months of Northwest Arkansas. My heating unit in my house stopped working. My first thought was to cry like a baby. My second thought was to call my mom and complain about how I hated being so far away from family or how I longed for someone to live closer to look after such things as these. Without hesitation my mother provided me with the funds needed to repair the broken heater. I hated to ask my mother for help, but I didn't feel like I had anyone else to turn to. (Or so I thought.)

*There was the time that my transmission went out on my Saturn. I absolutely loved that car! I am known for always being on the go, so when I was stuck at home and had to catch rides with co-workers and friends I was not a happy camper. Again I called my mother. This time it was just to hear her voice and receive some much needed words of encouragement. In about a week, I signed the paper work for a brand new vehicle and I was back on the road again.

I can’t help but to smile as I think back on how I use to think or the things that I use to do.  It took me awhile to realize that it wasn’t just my mother coming to my aid. No; it was God working through her.  Nowadays when things go wrong I rarely jump to conclusions to quickly or call home to mama. Nope. Instead, I call up to Papa! He's all I need.  God has answered prayers for me before I can even utter the words and for that I can’t help but to be thankful as well as patient while I watch Him work in my life.

Divine Order…

Those two simple words comfort me when my money is low, when I'm feeling down, or when I just feel like giving up.  You may be going through some difficult times right now. Just know that God has a reason for every storm. Just look at each storm as another chapter to your life story with a happily ever after waiting for you at the end.

Be blessed,
Christy